14 Sep

Create The Reality You Want

It is not always easy to do & if you are like me, something you work on every day. Focusing on the positive is a skill we need to work on & it will eventually become easier to do.  One  little shift in our thinking can bring some amazing results, so always be grateful for everything you have, big & small!

createrealityyouwant

29 Mar

The Basics Of Being Grateful

The practice of being thankful for the things you have, both big & small is an important skill to master. The more you appreciate the things you do have, the more things you will receive. This does not just mean material items.

Being grateful focuses your thought processes on what you have, not what you think is missing in your life. The more you focus on that, the happier you will be. Have you ever noticed people who are truly happy are also thankful for what they have? Gratefulness strengthens relationships, reduces stress & improves our overall health.

Every Thought

Psychological and behavioral research has shown the most amazing improvements in life brought by the practice of gratitude. Being thankful and appreciating life and the
things life offers makes us more resilient and even happier.

Being resilient means that no matter what challenges we face in our lives, we will handle them. Our attitude towards challenges can determine how well we deal with the occasional “bump in the road.” No one’s life is always smooth but focusing on the good things will help the bumps smooth out. These are temporary, that is why they are called bumps.

By looking at the good things we have in our lives & feeling thankful & grateful for those things can improve you health, relationships & bring more of those things into your life!

Wonderful Life

25 Jul

3 Mindfulness Techniques That Will Make You A Better Person

If you consider mindfulness to be a new age fad, or just another latest buzzword, then think again! With everyday pressures and stresses on your lives, it sometimes becomes arduous to feel motivated, and with the whole weight of the of the globe on your shoulders, you may sometimes become sad with your life. That is why, mindfulness has been around for many centuries. It is an approach associated with awareness that comes when you pay attention, on purpose, in the current moment. It helps to improve your mindset and the way you live. Here are some mindfulness techniques that will make you a better person:

1. Practice A Breathing Exercise

This is the easiest way to bring the power of mindfulness to your daily life. It includes a brief and simple meditation routine. All that you need to do is sit still and focus on your breath as it goes in and out of your lungs, without forcing or pushing your breathing. You just have to observe it and focus on it. In case other thoughts creep into your mind and begin to distract you, do not worry. Acknowledge those thoughts, and resume your focus on your breathing pattern each time. You must do this for 15 minutes everyday. You will immediately experience a feeling of calm. This in turn will help you to be more aware of your feelings and thoughts with a greater degree of calmness. And with this awareness, comes the feeling to freely choose appropriate and effective responses in stressful situations rather than losing your equilibrium.

2. Establish Mindfulness Triggers

It is suggested to set up some triggers, in order to constantly remind you throughout the day to relax, and also practice mindfulness. For instance, when your phone rings, take a deep breath before answering the call, and completely focus on what the other person is saying without any multitasking. Another example, when you come to a red light, or just before entering a conference, use it as a trigger to be mindful for just a moment. It will help you to become self-aware, thereby completely transforming you and also inspiring others.

3. Spend Time In Nature

This is another technique of practicing mindfulness that will help you to become a better person. Take a walk in your garden or park, or anywhere in nature everyday, on your own. Observe your surroundings, immerse yourself in the environment, do not answer any phone calls, and also resist the urge to Facebook then. Just be mindful of the nature’s sounds you hear, and reap the benefits of this technique completely.

These techniques will definitely help you to become a better person – they are wonderful tools to be happy, calm, and centered in any situation, and improve your overall quality of life. So try them right away!

27 May

Why Should We Be Grateful?

Being grateful is one of the best traits that you should strife in obtaining in your. You should remember to give gratitude for all the things that you have obtain in your life, whether is is big or small. Being grateful is a wonderful way to attract more positive things into your life. This includes being thankful for those persons who bring positive support to your life.

Potential Benefits of Gratitude

Gratitude will also offer you with valuable benefits that you can make use in your entire life.
It is not enough to say the words “thank you” to someone who did something good to or for you.
It is also important that you show them how you really appreciate the things that they have done
for you.

Better Moods and Less Stress

If you have ever noticed, most people that are truly grateful are happier than those people who are not. It is also true that grateful thinking has the ability to improve your mood throughout your day.
Gratitude reduces depression and anxiety. In order for you to enhance your moods and eliminate
those unwanted stresses, notice things that happen around you that bring good feelings or outcomes, say “I am grateful for….” & really feel it!

More Gain, Less Pain

Being grateful will also help you obtain a wide variety of health benefits that include a stronger immune system, lower your blood pressure and reduce the possible risks that stress can have on your body.

Better sleep

A better sleep is one of the things that you need to be thankful for since not everyone experiences
a good nights sleep. In order for you to attain the personal power perfection, you need to be grateful even for those simple things that come into your life.

Stronger Relationships

Expressing gratefulness to your close friend or partner has the ability to enhance your relationship bonds. This can also help you decide which relationships to continue & which ones have run their course & is time to end those that do not bring positive benefits to your life.

In order to protect your personal power, being grateful to every single thing that comes into your life is really important. The potential benefits of gratitude that are stated above can greatly help you in appreciating the real aspects of personal power perfection.

25 May

Loving Yourself Basics

Loving yourself is considered as one of the most important factors that you must know and possess. Just like what the bible says “love your neighbors as you love yourself”. In this phrase, you can understand that you need to love everything around you including yourself.

The following are some of the basics on how to start loving your own self to attain the significance of personal power perfection.

Get Rid Of  the Anger and Grief

According to most researchers, this is the first factor that you need to follow. In order for you to move passed this first step, you write a journal that contains things that might still be upsetting you about things that have happened in your past.

After you have written down everything you have thought of, tear the page up & through it away! This might sound silly but I’ve done this & it really does work to clear these feelings out of you.

In this way, you can easily wash out the anger and grief that you are feeling inside. This kind of process is also known as catharsis, it simply means that you want to purify yourself until you are completely pure. It is a kind of cleansing process that is highly recommended to clean your soul’s dirt.

Forgive

The next step that you should do is to forgive yourself for all the things that you have done wrong or think you might have done wrong. When you completely forgive yourself, it is the perfect time to forgive other people for the things that they also done to you. In order for you to completely forgive yourself, you need to let go all the bad memories that hurts you in the past and continue a brighter life in the future.

Build Positive Experiences

To completely start loving yourself, every single day of your life, you can start each day by writing in your journal positive things about yourself.  You can also write down good things that you admire about people who are part of your life.  Then when  you go to bed, reread the list you made that morning, in this way you will fall asleep with a positive frame of mind.

Keeping these suggestions in mind will serve as your helpful guide in changing your life in a positive way. And remember, this is a new skill you are working on so if you stumble, don’t give yourself a hard time about it. As Dory says in Finding Nemo…”Just Keep Swimming”

 

16 May

Being Grateful

Is being grateful part of your daily routine? Do you say “Thank You” for even the simplest things that you receive? If not, then, it is never too late for you to finally realize the essence of being grateful for all the things in your life.

The True Essence of Being Grateful

Whether you feel angry, moody, jealous or depressed recently or you feel that your life is full of negativity at this very moment, it is really never too late for you to enjoy the numerous benefits that being grateful has to offer.

In fact, you can take a few minutes any time and be thankful for the things that exist in your life, good or bad, happy or sad, for these can all make you grow into the kind of person that you are.

Seeing through the bad times and still being thankful might not really be easy but after you have surpassed them and you look back at your life’s darkest moments, you will surely appreciate the thing that you got from it = a tougher skin, a useful lesson or even just the mere experience which can help you in making better choices in the near future.

So, what are the benefits that you can get when you are grateful?

This helps you to be in the present, allowing you to notice the things that you have and stopping in order to acknowledge all of them. It can be as simple as having a pizza for lunch, the company of a classmate, or even the ability to hear.

Being grateful can generate good vibes. When applied to positive thinking, quantum physics state that your thoughts’ vibration can modify and affect the reality that surrounds you. It has been said that the initial 17 seconds of your thoughts are the most powerful, creating sufficient energy needed for starting attracting the things you are thinking of to come to your life.

When you are grateful, you have the power to change your mood almost immediately from negative into positive. Positive energy and good feelings arise once you start to acknowledge the things you are thankful for. However, there are some instances when your negative emotions start ruling you and affecting your mood. During these cases, it can be a bit hard for you to be actually grateful for anything.

When this situation befalls you, just think of this thought: things can always be much worst.
Whatever kind of circumstances you might be in, there is a chance that these can become way more difficult than what you are in right now. Be thankful that you are not in that “worst” part and try looking at things in a more positive light.

For instance, your budget probably doesn’t allow you to get a new pair of shoes but still, you have 5 other pairs when the other girl in your class doesn’t even have one.

You will finally be able to see the true essence of being grateful once you come to the realization that you can actually use your thankful feelings to achieve the things that you want. Be thankful today and expect for more blessings tomorrow.